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Archbishop Welby interviewed on Equal Marriage

Iain Dale interviewed the Archbishop of Canterbury on his radio show, and reported afterwards on his own website: Archbishop Softens Line On Gay Marriage

ID: You said once that you’re always averse to the language of exclusion and what we’re called to do is love in the same way as Jesus Christ loves us, how do you reconcile that with the church’s attitude on gay marriage?

JW: I think that the problem with the gay marriage proposals is that they don’t actually include people equally, it’s called equal marriage, but the proposals in the Bill don’t do that. I think that where there is… I mean I know plenty of gay couples whose relationships are an example to plenty of other people and that’s something that’s very important, I’m not saying that gay relationships are in some way… you know that the love that there is is less than the love there is between straight couples, that would be a completely absurd thing to say. And civil partnership is a pretty… I understand why people want that to be strengthened and made more dignified, somehow more honourable in a good way. It’s not the same as marriage…

ID: But if it could be made to work in a way that’s acceptable to the church you would be open to discussions on that?

JW: We are always open to discussions, we’ve been open to discussion, we’re discussing at the moment. The historic teaching of the church around the world, and this is where I remember that I’ve got 80 million people round the world who are Anglicans, not just the one million in this country, has been that marriage in the traditional sense is between a man and woman for life. And it’s such a radical change to change that I think we need to find ways of affirming the value of the love that is in other relationships without taking away from the value of marriage as an institution.

There is a link to the audio recording of this here.

Subsequently, Savi Hensman has written about this for Cif belief in The archbishop of Canterbury must follow up on praise for gay relationships.

…Welby could start by taking action to protect LGBT lay people in every parish, celibate or otherwise, from discrimination, and clergy from invasive questions. There are disturbing instances where people are made to feel unwelcome or humiliated and this should stop.

He could also encourage more thinking about how churches provide, and could improve, pastoral support for same-sex couples, including celebrating civil partnerships. In time, the Church of England might agree an order of service which clergy could use if they wished.

While all Anglican churches should indeed consult others in the communion before major decisions, this cuts both ways. The archbishops most opposed to greater inclusion have resisted repeated calls by international gatherings since 1978 for “deep and dispassionate” study of the issues, taking account of scientific research, and for dialogue with homosexual people and support for their human rights. Yet these leaders have not even bothered to explain why. Their treatment of their LGBT members falls far short of gospel values of love and justice.

Within the Church of England and beyond, Welby could promote awareness and discussion of developments in theological thinking on sexuality, including marriage. Overseas leaders could participate, but would have to engage seriously with others’ arguments.

The current situation is harming LGBT people and Christian witness in England. It is time to start moving forward on inclusion.

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Erika Baker
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Erika Baker

It sounds positive, of sorts. But I have to admit, I don’t really understand it. “And it’s such a radical change to change that I think we need to find ways of affirming the value of the love that is in other relationships without taking away from the value of marriage as an institution.” As Parliament has decisively voted in favour of equal marriage, who is he planning to have that conversation with? Who is the “we” who has to find others ways? Supporting people in Civil Partnerships and wholeheartedly welcoming them is a very very positive move. But who… Read more »

Cynthia
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Cynthia

Unfortunate double talk and hemming and hawing from the ABC. He should stop worrying about the “80 million Anglicans worldwide.” We didn’t select him. We had no representation what-so-ever. However, if he wants to consider us, then I would suggest that it is quite hurtful to hold up justice and inclusion for LGBT persons in his home because of human rights abusers amongst the 80 Million. To use outright abusers to justify continuing bigotry is … I don’t have kind words. It’s been proven time and again that the only way to stop bullying is to stand up to the… Read more »

Kelvin Holdsworth
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Generally speaking, as a gay man, I’d say that those who want to deny me equality who are nice or who are trying to be nice whilst denying it are a good deal more bother than those who are just plain nasty.

Will Douglas Barton
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Will Douglas Barton

I find it worrying that he says he only has 1 million anglicans in England. Even if you restrict the count to those who are baptised within the church it must be a lot more than that, but the CoE should be there for all the people of England unless they specifically opt out – surely that’s the point of establishment. He’s the Primate of All England. He’s not in charge of the whole communion, surely? Primus inter Pares by all means but if the ABC doesn’t represent the church in England, who will?

dr.primrose
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dr.primrose

A comment on Welby’s numbers. He claims 80 million Anglicans in the world but only one million in “this country,” presumably meaning England. The only way one gets to 80 million is to include a nominal membership in the Church of England of 26 million or so. One website has recalculated the numbers by reducing the CofE figure to 2.6 million, which reduces the total to just under 62 million. http://frbkirk.wordpress.com/2010/04/24/anglican-membership-numbers-worldwide/ Under Welby’s “one million” figure, the figure would be closer to 60 million. I don’t think Welby can have it both ways.

Richard Ashby
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Richard Ashby

Extraordinarily inarticulate answers from someone who has been ABC for some weeks now and must have known that these sorts of questions would be asked. And what does he mean when he says that the ‘gay marriage proposals don’t include people equally’? If he means that he supports civil partnershps for opposite sex couples, why doens’t he say so? This was one of the objections raised by my MP who abstained on the recent House of Commons vote. And in any case, as I pointed out to my MP, isn’t half a loaf better than no bread? As for the… Read more »

TDuBose
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TDuBose

Refreshing and surprising words. Still, there’s that “without taking away from the value of marriage as an institution.” I just can’t understand, not being a trademarks lawyer, how the blessing of the one takes away from the value of the other. Would someone who understands this assertion please explain its underpinnings?

David@Montreal
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David@Montreal

As the very most his comments might indicate the AoC is ‘open’ to discussion. However, if those discussions are to be frank and honest that he recognize that the one-man-one-woman-marriage he is upholding is a medieval invention, and that within the span of Biblical time domestic arrangements were non-sacramental and often included one man and more than one wife; or one man, a wife and concubines. Bottom line: seems to me Justin is implicitly admitting that his understanding of our faith is unable to sacramentally engage with current realities. Sad thing is it is the Church which is being left… Read more »

Cynthia
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Cynthia

Well, here’s a recent turn around: http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/editorials/2013/03/15/gay-couples-also-deserve-chance-to-get-married.html

Maybe there’s hope for the ABC.

I agree with you Kelvin. It hardly matters if they are “nice” if they are actively working to deny justice and equality, to expose me and our brothers and sisters to outright harm, and to simply deny that we are created in the image of God, same as all others.

Charlotte
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Charlotte

Archbishop Welby may be trying to get himself out of a very deep hole dug for him by certain vocal factions in the Church of England. If so, I wish him success in finding the right form of words.

RPNewark
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RPNewark

“As Parliament has decisively voted in favour of equal marriage, who is he planning to have that conversation with? Who is the “we” who has to find others ways?” – Erika Baker.

Actually, *Parliament* hasn’t voted decisively in favour. The House of Commons has. There are two houses and, as far as I know, the upper house, of which +Justin is a member, hasn’t yet expressed a view.

Craig Nelson
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Craig Nelson

My initial impression is that this is – yes – welcome but essentially window dressing. On the other hand he is a new Archbishop of Canterbury who one can assume (one hopes) knows what he is doing. The tune is definitely changing. Even if one concludes it’s waffly flim flam (as I do) the mood music is 100% better than the bile that was being churned out a few months ago. One assumes a new ABC has seen how the previous ABC’s time was totally dominated by the topic of ‘gays’ and reached some preliminary views about how he wishes… Read more »

Rosemary Hannah
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Rosemary Hannah

While I take the point about damning with niceness, and slithering with compassion and no honesty – to be fair I have watched a lot of people go through this stage before coming to realise that no, marriage is not about gender roles, and yes it is about mutual support and commitment. We have to keep hoping as well as working and arguing. And hope that one day logic and rationality will start to prevail.

Tim Moore
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Tim Moore

So Archbishop Justin says he’s open to discussion on gay marriage: that’s good of him.

What speaks volumes is that Welby accepts that the love within same-sex relationships is not inferior to love between mixed-sex partners, yet still somehow not the same to be worthy of being called “marriage”. Is he saying marriage is not a matter of love but about semantics?

I’m inclined to find those remarks more offensive than encouraging. The position the Archbishop ends up in is ridiculous.

Father Ron Smith
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Well, at least, Her Majesty the Queen will apparently be signing the Commonwealth Charter which decries discrimination against people on the basis of their gender or innate sexuality. Perhaps H.M. and the ABC need to talk to one another about this.

Erika Baker
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Erika Baker

PRNewark, I stand corrected. But I hope that your comment is only a point of order, because the generally genuine tone of Justin Welby’s words makes it hard to believe that he is really saying “let’s wait until we can get this thrown out in the Lords despite the overwhelming support in the House of Commons and in general society for this”. I believe he is genuinely welcoming and that he is in that half-way state where you truly believe that equal but different is still equal and an acceptable solution for all. He’s wrong, of course, but I don’t… Read more »

Counterlight
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Counterlight

Nice or not, most of the Western world (and some of the non-Western world) are way ahead of the Archbishop on same sex equality.

I agree with Kelvin Holdsworth and with Savi Hensman.
“Niceness is the enemy of fairness.”

Rosie Bates
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It seems clear to me that the most urgent duty of our Archbishop is to ‘open a discussion’ on LGTB issues. He cannot do this effectively in private ‘asides’. There already exist good working models for thoroughly inclusive consultations in other more enlightened Provinces. During these consultations truth emerges as to what it means to live in Christ as a valued and effective member of the LGTB community. Conflicts arise when valuable lay and ordained ministry is considered to be a problem. In the same way as theologians are saying that women are not a problem to be solved but… Read more »

Laurence Cunnington
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Laurence Cunnington

“In the meantime we are all diminished and to some degree voiceless in a society evidently better educated by God, with God and in God.” Rosie Bates

Or without God.

Nat
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Nat

“I understand why people want that to be strengthened and made more dignified, somehow more honourable in a good way.” Huh? More honorable in a “good” way? Does this have any meaning at all? “I’ve got 80 million people round the world who are Anglicans…” “I”? If “I,” then why does he not reprimand the dreadful things perpetrated with the local church’s approval in place such as Nigeria? The C of E seems more irrelevant by the day. No women bishops, tepid toward GLBT people at best, of little or no influence in TEC – hardly a “world church,” and… Read more »

Helen
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Helen

The URC has produced a very good discussion document for congregations. A pity the CoE doesn’t follow suit.

Cynthia
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Cynthia

Rosie, I have to admit that yours is the voice of reason. There needs to be dialogue and process. In this conversation, people need to know the pain that has been caused by the church. There’s no sugar coating it; the church has caused real pain and suffering and it must be acknowledged. LGBT members have an obligation to Witness to that suffering, for ourselves and most of all for those who can’t speak for themselves (suicidal teens in the US hearing the message “God hates fags,” and our brothers and sisters in oppressive situations in places like Uganda and… Read more »

Rosie Bates
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Laurence ‘Or without God.’ Not possible as all are made in the image and likeness. Distanced, and in ignorance maybe (include myself) but always with. If not we have no Gospel to proclaim to ALL. I shudder every time I hear someone use the phrase ‘Godless society’. All or nothing!

Rosie Bates
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Cynthia – ‘In this conversation, people need to know the pain that has been caused by the church. There’s no sugar coating it; the church has caused real pain and suffering and it must be acknowledged. LGBT members have an obligation to Witness to that suffering, for ourselves and most of all for those who can’t speak for themselves….’ Yes, Cynthia and God alone knows how many. Some of us carry certain holy memories and voices of the wounded, the dying and those so sickened and depressed by CofE theology – and perhaps self denial – that they took the… Read more »

Laurence Cunnington
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Laurence Cunnington

“Laurence ‘Or without God.’ Not possible as all are made in the image and likeness” Rosie Bates

This is probably not the forum to play ping-pong on this point and I’m genuinely not wishing to be rude but please do try to realise that some people are atheists and that a God has played no part in the development of their understanding of LGBT justice issues – or anything else for that matter. The fact that you believe that something is ‘not possible’ does not make it so for everyone.

Cynthia
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Cynthia

“we are called to prayer that this may indeed come to pass” I heard Desmond Tutu speak about 10 years ago. He spoke of meeting an American woman way out West (I think it was Oregon, further west of me in Colorado). She said to him that she was an insomniac and every night she prayed for the end of apartheid. Tutu responded something to the effect of “now I know we can’t lose because this lady thousands of miles away is praying through the night so fervently.” Prayer is truly a wonderful force and I shall remember to pray… Read more »

Geoff
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“Is he saying marriage is not a matter of love but about semantics?”

Tim, isn’t that pretty much the thrust of the entire “contra” case?

Sara MacVane
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Sara MacVane

As an American (once again….) I would cite Brown vs the school board of Topeka Kansas:separate is never equal.

Father Ron Smith
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It was wonderful today to hear again the story of Mary Magdalene’s anointing of the feet of Jesus, and wiping therm with her hair. How often is the Church like the onlookers, who wondered whether Jesus “knew the character and disposition of the person who was extending these courtesies”.

Of course He did. And he reprimanded them for their meanness of spirit. Is that what is happening in our Churches at the present time. Are we jealous of the love spent by Jesus on the nurture of Women and Gays in the Church?

Rosie Bates
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Laurence, I do not consider you are being rude – you made me think and laugh. I am something of an insomniac and I often question God in the middle of the night about certain atheists/humanists who seem to be doing very good work in this world. There is one in particular who is on a mission for LGTB and other good causes. Do I feel called to pray for his conversion? -er – No. I don’t pray for his conversion because I reckon he’s doing a pretty fine job of lambasting us and our hypocrisy and neither do I… Read more »

Laurence Cunnington
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Laurence Cunnington

@Rosie Bates.

Thank you for your reply.

Counterlight
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Counterlight

I agree with Cynthia.
I think a lot of atheists are way ahead of the Church on a major human rights issue of our time. It looks like on this issue, as on so many other major humanitarian issues over the last 2 centuries, the Church will bring up the rear, dragged kicking and screaming. Considering that history, why should not Almighty God make atheists and secularists the instruments of His purposes?

RPNewark
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RPNewark

Erika at 9.46 am on 16 March: Yes, it was only a point of order. I certainly wouldn’t attribute any sort of deviousness to +Justin but he is not the whole House of Lords. It would not surprise me a bit if Conservative peers managed to scupper the bill and a game of inter-house ping-pong resulted. I don’t think that the Parliament Act can be invoked for the Commons to get its way (tho’ I may be wrong on that). For the record, I believe that marriage is the loving, life-long, monogamous union of two people for the mutual support… Read more »

Cynthia
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Cynthia

Well, here’s a recent turn around: http://www.dispatch.com/content/stories/editorials/2013/03/15/gay-couples-also-deserve-chance-to-get-married.html

Maybe there’s hope for the ABC.

I agree with you Kelvin. It hardly matters if they are “nice” if they are actively working to deny justice and equality, to expose me and our brothers and sisters to outright harm, and to simply deny that we are created in the image of God, same as all others.