Comments: Reactions to Dr Sentamu's response on Marriage and Civil Partnerships

Can I ask about Richard Harries' comment that the Government seems to have dropped its idea of legalising gay marriage?

I thought the proposal is still in its consultation phase and could therefore not have been included this year's Queen's Speech - which is what most people seem to hang their belief on that the proposal has been dropped.

The question is what will happen after the consultation phase and David Cameron answered pre-Queen Speech suggestions that the proposal would be kicked into the long grass with an affirmation of his plans to legalise gay marriage.

Can anyone confirm or correct this interpretation?

Posted by Erika Baker at Wednesday, 23 May 2012 at 10:10am BST

In response to Erika.

They haven't said it has been dropped ad they are still consulting on it. However there was a front page article in the Sunday Times following heavy government losses in council seats that it had been dropped.

The story obviously came from a reliable source or the Sunday Times would not have lead with the story. In ,response no minister apart from Lynn Featherstone has denied it, and on her own blog, not a government website (she's evidently 'keeping hope alive' - which you have to admire).

People outside the govt are going around saying it's been dropped and no-one from the govt's press officers contradicts them - thus does the govt communicate with its subjects.

When announcing the policy the Tories didn't want this to be a Lib Dem policy and stated it was being 'driven forwards' by the PM. I guess he's stopped driving in this instance.

Basically the Tories were just playing with the issue. Maybe they'll resurrect the issue, maybe not.

Posted by Craig Nelson at Wednesday, 23 May 2012 at 11:16am BST

Another error in the Sentamu analysis is his suggestion (also made by other opponents of equal marriage) that, if equal marriage is not forced on religious celebrants, this creates “two kinds of marriage” which would be different from “hitherto”.

In fact, however, there would only be two different kinds of marriage *ceremony* (only opposite sex couples being allowed a marriage ceremony in church, just as divorcees were formerly excluded), there would not be two kinds of *marriage* (the relationship of marriage being the same whether formalised in a civil ceremony or in church).

This variety of ceremony, but with only one status of marriage resulting, has been the case for many generations.

As long ago as 1973, the Law Commission wrote:

"The present law is the product of history. Although most of it is now to be found in the Marriage Act 1949, that was merely a consolidating (not a reforming) Act which re-enacted the substance of provisions dating back to 1823 (which in turn were based on still earlier legislation). There are now two main forms of solemnisation of marriage - civil and religious. The former is relatively straightforward... In the case of ecclesiastical marriages there is a bewildering mixture of civil and religious administration at all stages... With this proliferation of procedures it is hardly surprising that the law is not understood by members of the public or even by those who have to administer it ..."
(Paragraph 6 of Report of Joint Working Party of the Law Commission and the Registrar General in the Annex to the Law Commission "Report on solemnisation of marriage in England and Wales." (1973) No 53.)

Posted by badman at Wednesday, 23 May 2012 at 11:58am BST

It's very confused, Erica.

There was at least one journalist claiming the day after the local elections a someone at No 10 was briefing that gay marriage was a dead duck, at least pro tem.

Yet last week I was holding forth on the legal complexities as part of the government road-show here in Cardiff and the civil servants (middle rank) were saying that the No 10 briefing was a rogue commentator (or never happened!) and that, quite the contrary the government were determined to see this IN PLACE by 2014!

Robert Ian Williams has an interesting take on the view expressed by pundits that gay marriage was a vote loser for the Tories. He stood for Labour in a Tory seat held by a partnered gay man and lost. Robert admits the sitting candidate was a good councillor and well respected, but even more he says that NOT ONCE in all the weeks of door stepping throughout the constituency did someone raise gay marriage! He was rather disappointed!!

Still, on the question you ask. Is it on - or is it off? I think Richard Harries gets the inside track so I would be surprised if he hasn't got this right.

Posted by Martin Reynolds at Wednesday, 23 May 2012 at 12:10pm BST

Interesting to read badman's refernce from the 1973 working party report.

In my talk on the various possibilities the government had in legislating for same-sex marriage I was tossing around some ideas (mostly belonging to other very well qualified people!) when the civil servant intervened and said quite plainly:

"We will have a new Marriage Act."

Very much not a consolidation then, but a total reform. So all those wondering how the government are going to frame legislation that will deal with the sexual niceties will be disappointed. this government plans to reinvent the wheel - or NOT - depending on whether the whole project has been shelved!

Posted by Martin Reynolds at Wednesday, 23 May 2012 at 5:24pm BST

According to the Bible, the Israelites wandered around the Sinai desert for 40 years, waiting for the generation which left Egypt to die off so that their life experience, and subsequent mental attitudes, would no longer be the norm when the Israelites entered the Promised Land.
As much as I would like to see civil same-sex marriage soon, I've seen too much water under the bridge, and I believe it will not happen on a widespread scale -- certainly within the USA, in my pessimistic opinion -- until after the generation I'm part of is long dead, and I lie mouldering in the grave. Younger readers shouldn’t be too alarmed: I’ve already used up almost 3 score of the biblical 3 score years and 10.
Regarding Iain McClean's reference to an interview by Bishop Sentamu in which Sentamu referenced the statement “We [the bishops in the House of Lords] supported civil partnerships, because we believe that friendships are good for everybody.”:
That statement is precisely the type of life experience and mental attitude I referenced earlier, and it sounds sanctimonious, condescending, and patronizing.
I've known gay and lesbian couples who have been together for 10, 20, 30 years. The people involved in those relationships are more than just "friends" to each other. They're not some young school kids giving each other trinkets. They are spouses. They are partners. In every sense that men and women in heterosexual marriages are spouses and partners to each other.
“Friendships are good for everybody”, sheesh! [long sigh]

Posted by peterpi - Peter Gross at Wednesday, 23 May 2012 at 8:29pm BST

Just as I always suspected, Martin. Everyone from the comments section of Thinking Anglicans is secretly meeting down the pub for a drink, and I'm not invited!

Posted by rjb at Wednesday, 23 May 2012 at 9:07pm BST

"Redefining marriage to include same-sex couples would benefit nobody."

To Sentamu, same-sex couples who want to get married = "nobody".

Not feelin' da Christian love, m'Lord.

Posted by JCF at Wednesday, 23 May 2012 at 9:26pm BST

It's the economy, stupid. Gay marriage was a fig leaf used by the Tory right to cover the unpopularity of the government's economic strategy manifested in the local elections results. All governments get a kicking by the electorate mid-term. The PM is just biding his time and concentrating on getting us out of recession. He also needs the support of his right-wing flank in the Commons as much as he does the Lib Dems. Governments can multi-task, and the consultation will continue unabated.

Sure as eggs is eggs, gay marriage will be back on the agenda in a couple of years. By that stage we will be headng towards the 2015 election, and neither Clegg nor Miliband will let Cameron off the hook. Zapatero's Socialists won the 2008 Spanish election after introducing gay marriage during their first term despite fierce opposition from the RC Church. Elections are generally fought on the centre ground. Cameron won't backtrack because it would make him look weak and unprincipled, and result in electoral suicide.

Posted by Andrew at Wednesday, 23 May 2012 at 10:12pm BST

The biggest surprise to me in all of this, is that Abp. Sentamu has actually conceded the fact that Same-Sex relationships can actually be a good thing - not only for the monogamous, faithful Same-sex partners, but for society at large. That's got to be an improvement on his former anti-Gay stance.

Posted by Father Ron Smith at Thursday, 24 May 2012 at 12:58am BST

rjb, but we wouldn't have wanted to hurt you:
"we believe that friendships are good for everybody.” It's just there are some lines we don't want to cross!
You understand, I'm sure .........

Posted by Martin Reynolds at Thursday, 24 May 2012 at 7:58am BST

'The great flaw in his argument is that he does not urge the church to bless such partnerships'

The great flaw in Richard Harries' argument is that civil partnerships should be an 'honourable expression of a committed relationship', but fail miserably. They've been crafted by those who decry marriage exclusion to exclude siblings who have cared for each other in their dotage. Why bless that?

Posted by David Shepherd at Thursday, 24 May 2012 at 1:01pm BST

Interesting to read on other blogs the discussions about whether 'consummation' (what ever that means) is necessary for same sex marriages and how that can be proved. I do wonder about the obsession with other people's sexual activity displayed by those against same sex marriage.

Posted by Richard Ashby at Thursday, 24 May 2012 at 4:42pm BST

David Shepherd, much of what you write is not easy to comprehend. The post on Thursday, 24 May 2012 at 1:01pm BST I find even more inscrutable than usual, I wonder if I might prevail on you to elucidate?

I think you are saying that civil partnerships fail miserably to express a committed relationship and that this failure was made manifest by the failure of the O’Cathain amendment. Have I read you correctly?

Posted by Martin Reynolds at Thursday, 24 May 2012 at 5:32pm BST

"They've been crafted by those who decry marriage exclusion to exclude siblings who have cared for each other in their dotage."

Your point is that homosexual relationships are no more absurd and perverse than incest: is that it, DavidS?

If this is some sort of disputational strategy, I can only give the words of wisdom: if stuck at the bottom of a hole, stop digging!

Posted by JCF at Thursday, 24 May 2012 at 10:25pm BST

After the home secretary has tweeted her support as well as support from the PM's PPS and the indication of a free vote I might have to retract my earlier cynicism and conclude it's all on again...

Posted by Craig Nelson at Friday, 25 May 2012 at 12:44am BST

I do wonder about the obsession with other people's sexual activity displayed by those against same sex marriage.

What is there to wonder about Richard? Seems rather obvious to me.

Posted by Perry Butler at Friday, 25 May 2012 at 9:43am BST

Further testimony to the damage done by homophobia

Posted by Mary Marriott at Friday, 25 May 2012 at 3:05pm BST


Your typically incendiary comments, I don't see a committed platonic love between two old widowed siblings as incest, so why not make civil partnership more inclusive?

Come on, peeps! Let the whole wide world feel da love!

Posted by David Shepherd at Saturday, 26 May 2012 at 4:28pm BST

"Come on, peeps! Let the whole wide world feel da love!"

I'm just not feeling it from you.

Posted by Counterlight at Monday, 28 May 2012 at 12:21am BST

Counterlight, what doesn't exist is not tangible.

Posted by MarkBrunson at Wednesday, 30 May 2012 at 4:33am BST

The claims made by Professor McLean disregard the behaviour of the Lords Spiritual at the decisive final Lords vote on the Civil Partnerships Bill. The record clearly indicates support from the bishops for the legislation.

The voting to which Professor McLean refers relates to six bishops’ support for Baroness O Cathain’s amendment at the Report Stage. They agreed with her at that stage that the provision of Civil Partnerships should be available to siblings and cohabiting mixed sex couples. The then Bishop of Worcester voted against this amendment, which was passed in the Lords but then overturned in the Commons.

When the bill returned to the Lords on 17th Nov. 2004 Baroness O’Cathain attempted once again to broaden the provision by a further amendment, but this time bishops voted eight to two in favour of the legislation as it stood. A clear majority expressed their support for the bill introducing Civil Partnerships for same sex couples. It is to this decisive vote in support of the Bill that the Archbishop of York referred in his Telegraph interview and recent Guardian article. To read the debate please click the link below. (scroll down for vote record

Posted by malcolm macnaughton at Friday, 1 June 2012 at 4:34pm BST
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