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Opinion – 11 June 2025

Alice Goodman Prospect The strange ritual of confirmation

Helen King sharedconversations Another one bites the dust: resignation, LLF … and murder?

Trevor Thurston-Smith The Pensive Pilgrim Hymns : Entering the Minefield

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Shamus
Shamus
1 day ago

Not so very long ago, Confirmation was the passport to receiving the Eucharist, and I think that worked well. Then someone thought children were suitable to receive the sacrament before Confirmation. I never understood why adults were not included unless confirmed or intending to be confirmed. Result: even fewer confirmations than before. And more youngsters miss out on learning more about the faith through confirmation classes. Own goal.

Kieran
Kieran
Reply to  Shamus
1 day ago

Confirmation used to give access to the full sacramental life of the Church. So, yes the Eucharist. And also marriage. And ordination. It also used to be assumed that a parish officebearer would be confirmed, since they were also required to be a communicant. It’s a bit hard to offer a confirmation class when there are no children in your congregation. It’s not so much an own goal as a self-fulfilling prophecy. And I suspect there are other factors to consider in the decline of confirmation numbers. Bigger changes have left confirmation as ‘a sacrament seeking a theology.’ Relatively few… Read more »

Baptist Trainfan
Baptist Trainfan
Reply to  Kieran
10 hours ago

“Confirmation does tend to come into its own as a rite of passage for making a commitment to faith. I’ve accompanied people baptised in infancy who have had the lights slowly come on as they’ve explored faith and prayer”. This is very similar to what happens in Baptist communities. Children may be brought for dedication or blessing, but are not baptised – that comes later when they “own” the faith for themselves. (In fact Baptist churches often have a problem as those who have been baptised elsewhere as children often wish to be re-baptised by immersion as a visible and… Read more »

David Rowett
Reply to  Shamus
1 day ago

CofE practice is remarkable in its theological inconsistency here. I remember Paul Bradshaw pointing out that the Baptism of Infants implies a sacramental theology which is ‘ex opere operato’, whereas the Adults Only (ie old enough to start work as an agricultural labourer circa 1830) policy of admission to Communion suggests something very different, a form of receptionism, perhaps. (Historically, of course, the rite was a unified one, and (according to the Book of Bradshaw) our current practice in the West was strongly influenced by the availability of bishops in that little Italian settlement known to some as Rome.) There… Read more »

Allan Sheath
Allan Sheath
Reply to  David Rowett
23 hours ago

+David Stancliffe, when Chair of the Liturgical Commission, claimed that the post-baptismal prayer, ‘May God, who has received you by baptism into his Church, pour upon you the riches of his grace ….’, when accompanied with Chrismation using episcopally consecrated Chrism, was analogous to confirmation and should admit the child to Communion. Confirmation would come later, after catechesis and once the young adult was ready to ‘own’ their baptism in front of their chief pastor and receive the grace to continue their discipleship.

Geoff M.
Geoff M.
Reply to  Shamus
1 day ago

I’d go back further and say it’s the separation of confirmation from baptism in the West that has left it rudderless and in search of a theology.

Jonathan Jamal
Jonathan Jamal
Reply to  Shamus
1 day ago

In my church the Roman Catholic Church we have First Holy Communion before Confirmation, but before First Holy Communion is given Children have to go through a period of preparation and also make their first Confession. Then when it comes to Confirmation there is another period of instruction. When this was first introduced in the Church of England, it was part of a Report issued by what what was then the General Synod Board of Education “Children in the Way, which came out in the late 1990’s when my late mother Dorothy Jamal was the National Children’s Officer for the… Read more »

Nicholas Henshall
Nicholas Henshall
Reply to  Shamus
1 day ago

Maybe but just a couple of thoughts that may be related. Even in large, growing churches, the number of confirmations continue to decline. And I’d relate directly to the wider cultural issue that people are increasingly uneasy about affiliation. Baptism doesn’t really feel like affiliation, especially infant baptism, but confirmation really does. So people seem happy to be baptised and happy to worship regularly, but not happy to affiliate. I guess the picture isn’t helped by priests like me who struggle with the point of confirmation and would largely endorse the Orthodox practice of communion on the basis of baptism.… Read more »

Allan Sheath
Allan Sheath
Reply to  Shamus
1 day ago

“I never understood why adults were not included unless confirmed or intending to be confirmed. Result: even fewer confirmations than before.” Wouldn’t this suggest more, not fewer, confirmations?  The liturgical norm – although not necessarily the pastoral approach – is one in which adults are baptized, confirmed and receive first Communion within a single rite. When adults are baptized days before their confirmation it can weaken the significance of baptism by separating it from confirmation and Eucharist. Is this the rationale behind Canon B24, which states that the Bishop should be given at least a week’s notice of an adult… Read more »

Andrew Horsted
Andrew Horsted
Reply to  Shamus
1 day ago

agreed, Confirmation classes were a vital stage of learning more about the faith as one approached adulthood, and would be more relevant today with the secularisation of RSE in schools . To appreciate the mystery of the sacrament at an early age is very difficult . Confirmation classes were the perfect opportunity for enquiring minds to learn from those most qualified.

Allan Sheath
Allan Sheath
Reply to  Andrew Horsted
23 hours ago

But is that so? I’m not denying the benefits of solid catechesis, but I’ve long felt that the young have an innate sense of the sacramental – a sense which adults have often been socialised out of. No way of proving it either way of course – after all, it is a mystery!

David Rowett
Reply to  Allan Sheath
2 hours ago

Recalling a former parish priest of mine who was very pally with the Orthodox, he was once asked by an Orthodox priest pal what happened in Confirmation classes. ‘We tell them what happens in the Eucharist,’ he replied. Impressed, the Orthodox returned, ‘Oh, would you tell me, too? I’ve always wanted to know.’ Is Communion about the encounter with God appropriate to who one is at that particular point in one’s journey, or is it an exhibition of propositional knowledge to a particular standard? If so, the latter, should we excommunicate all learning-disadvantaged people? If the former, should we drop… Read more »

Allan Sheath
Allan Sheath
Reply to  David Rowett
22 minutes ago

Parishes lament how their young folk disappear from church soon after confirmation. Yet the very name ‘confirmation prep’ invites comparison with preparing for graduation: not from Uni, but from the life of the Church. Discipleship – begun in baptism, affirmed at confirmation and nourished by the Eucharist – would be better supported by ongoing catechesis detached from any association with earning meal tickets.

Perry Butler
Perry Butler
Reply to  Shamus
9 hours ago

In the western church confirmation was included as one of the 7 sacraments by Peter Lombard but it was much neglected. To remedy this in 1281 Archbishop Peckham decreed noone should be admitted to communion unless they were confirmed ( though of course people communicated very rarely then) so this was the discipline that the Reformation kept. I suppose the age varied. John Wesley was confirmed very young I believe but in the 19th and 20th c it seems to have been in the 12-15 age range, creeping earlier under the influence of the Parish Communion. Professor Lampe’s Seal of… Read more »

Baptist Trainfan
Baptist Trainfan
Reply to  Perry Butler
8 hours ago

“I wonder how far confirmation is still commonly practised “de rigueur” in our Public Schools?”. Am I the only one here who shudders at such a statement? Surely the decision to be confirmed should be an individual’s response to an awareness of faith, not something that is “done” with a batch of students who reach a certain age, even with preparation?

FrDavid H
FrDavid H
1 day ago

Confirmation was more widespread when the Church of England taught Anglicanism.. With the spread of HTB-style churches and happy-clappy ministers, the need for a bishop’s hands on the head became irrelevant. Who needs a passport to listen to worship songs, or a man in denims explaining the horrors of same-sex marriage?

Nigel Goodwin
Nigel Goodwin
Reply to  FrDavid H
9 hours ago

I have a feeling you are using the term ‘happy-clappy’ in a derogatory sense. Please stop. It is another form of name calling. Embrace diversity.

FrDavid H
FrDavid H
Reply to  Nigel Goodwin
6 hours ago

Men in denims explaining the horrors of same-sex marriage is derogatory .

Tim Chesterton
Reply to  FrDavid H
4 hours ago

As I reflect on my own spiritual experience, while I have a vague memory of my confirmation at the age of twelve, I have no memory at all of any of the content of the confirmation classes (this despite the fact that I know the vicar was a good teacher!). So experientially (I’m not speaking objectively or theologically here), if confirmation was meant to be my own acceptance of the baptismal commitments made by my parents, it was ineffectual. Also, when I look back, I can detect no memory of any difference in my awareness of the Holy Spirit’s presence… Read more »

FrDavid H
FrDavid H
Reply to  Tim Chesterton
3 hours ago

Thank you for this personal and meaningful testimony.

Pengalls
Pengalls
1 day ago

Thankyou Trevor for your observations on hymns and all that goes towards making them suitable in worship. I think you have expressed every view that I have held for years.
I’m just grateful there are just enough in our congregation to make the choice of tune, speed and volume a consideration, not forgetting to let our more recent composers in on the side when they least expect it!.

Nigel Goodwin
Nigel Goodwin
Reply to  Pengalls
10 hours ago

Yes, it seemed sensible. My rule when an organist was that the vicar chooses the hymns and organist chooses the tunes. There are some very dreary tunes out there. Also do not underestimate the time and effort taken by the organist. It is usually a volunteer position with minimal compensation. It helped my pocket in student days. Yet, in my day, it involved a Thursday choir practice, choosing and learning anthems, organ practice for the voluntary (normally many hours of work per piece over several weeks), possibly a Saturday wedding with learning a piece requested by the bride, which again… Read more »

Tim Chesterton
Reply to  Nigel Goodwin
4 hours ago

‘I think preparing a weekly sermon is relatively trivial.’

Preparing a weekly sermon was a 6-8 hour commitment to me, and I built my working week around it. I can assure you, it was not trivial.

Baptist Trainfan
Baptist Trainfan
Reply to  Tim Chesterton
3 hours ago

Nor is it for me, especially as in my tradition “meaty” sermons are expected, and also we have to build the whole service from scratch every time.

Fr Dexter Bracey
Fr Dexter Bracey
1 day ago

“…my own experience as an organist is that diffident congregations are better encouraged to sing by a fairly robust ‘accompaniment'”, writes Trevor Thurston-Smith. Absolutely right. I’ve heard congregations practically give up singing if the organist plays too softly – no-one who is not a confident singer wants to hear themselves over the organ.

Steven
Steven
Reply to  Fr Dexter Bracey
21 hours ago

Agreed. The Mass I attended on Saturday night was very well attended, but the organ (clavinova) accompaniment was so quiet and feeble that it could barely be heard. Consequently, half the congregation didn’t bother trying to join in; apart from one or two brave souls, most of us just gave up half way through the hymns and closed our hymn books.

Laurence Cunnington
Laurence Cunnington
1 day ago

“At the moment, clergy can’t, but they can be in same-sex civil partnerships; to the world outside the church, that may look odd, but the C of E gets around this by saying that there isn’t any sex in civil partnerships; and, I suppose, logically, that there has to be sex in marriages?” Helen King Yet if one converts a same-sex civil partnership into a marriage, the ‘start’ of the marriage is backdated to that of the civil partnership – even if that date is before the introduction of same-sex marriages. A clergyperson, upon retirement, could do this and thus… Read more »

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Froghole
Froghole
1 day ago

Time was when confirmation training involved the catechism. Who catechises these days? Perhaps the increasing incoherence of the Church of England might be attributable – at least in part – to the gradual, and now almost complete, disappearance of that custom over the last century (as I think Dr Butler has noted on occasion): https://global.oup.com/academic/product/the-christians-abc-9780198206170?cc=gb&lang=en&#

Perry Butler
Perry Butler
Reply to  Froghole
8 hours ago

I think the C of E would benefit from a new catechism along the lines of an official ( or at least semi official) Outline of the Faith as understood by the Church of England to put in the hands of enquirers and the basis of other catechetical material. My father b 1912 if asked what a sacrament was would reply “An outward sign etc) as per the Prayer Book. I once prepared an 87 year old for confirmation and a friend accompaning her told me that at his school ( St Paul’s) they were prepared for confirmation using the… Read more »

Anglican Priest
Anglican Priest
Reply to  Perry Butler
7 hours ago

I do confirmation training where I work in the US. In our case, many people simply are coming from other denominations. The categories confirmation, re-affirmation, reception are operative depending on how adult profession of faith (if relevant) has been made elsewhere. Nevertheless, many opt to do the catechetical part, just because they want to know the content of the faith they confess (and necessary for confirmation). I know the contorted history of confirmation/baptism, but find the catechesis helpful as do those coming. The Outline of Faith in the TEC BCP is very bare bones. I used to try to adapt/edit/supplement… Read more »

Charles Read
Charles Read
Reply to  Perry Butler
5 hours ago

The bishop of Oxford has advocated for a new catechism and Pilgrim has one – see here. About The Pilgrim Way | The Church of England

Charles Read
Charles Read
9 hours ago

Historically there was just one initiation rite which was baptism. It might or might not have included anointing with oil and laying on of hands, depending on where you were – there was much local variation . As one or two have pointed out in this thread, by about the 4th century this rite began to break up in the West, but not in the east, with the result that, sometime later on a separate service of confirmation emerged. There is no confirmation in the early centuries and so it ends up being a rite in search of a theology,… Read more »

Perry Butler
Perry Butler
Reply to  Charles Read
8 hours ago

The Orthodox communicate babies/ little children true ( though the parents bringing them up often don’t receive as confession before every act of communion is still strongly held. But their baptism rite includes chrismation so the child is confirmed. Of course some clergy do use chrism after baptising see Allan Sheath’s comments above with its implication that the child could/should become communicate ( but I imagine they don’t).

Charles Read
Charles Read
Reply to  Perry Butler
7 hours ago

Chrismation is not confirmation. Chrismation was sometimes part of the ancient unified rite but was not always performed by a bishop nor accompanied by laying on of hands. Confirmation is a western invention (by accident).

Jonathan Jamal
Jonathan Jamal
Reply to  Charles Read
36 minutes ago

I think it was invented much earlier in the Acts of the Apostles, where the Apostles laid hands on those who had been Baptised, when I was prepared for Confirmation as an Anglican in the past, the Priest who prepared me Canon Gordan Sealey, read the passage to us Candidates from the Acts of the Apostles and told us Candidates that, that was where the origin of Confirmation began. Jonathan

Allan Sheath
Allan Sheath
Reply to  Charles Read
8 hours ago

Twenty years after GS issued regulations on admitting children to Communion on the basis of their baptism, the practice still remains within the gift of the bishop. Why, I don’t know. But it does suggest some hesitancy in recognising baptism as sufficient in itself.

Some dioceses also require a rite of admission to Communion on the day, but again, isn’t this questioning baptism’s sufficiency? Surely all that is needed is to give notice that on X Sunday N & N will be receiving their first Communion, plus naming them in the Prayers of Intercession?

Charles Read
Charles Read
Reply to  Allan Sheath
5 hours ago

Yes i agree – what we have is a C of E fudge! Bishops also tell me they want to keep confirmation so they can visit parishes…

Bob
Bob
8 hours ago

I am following the many comments about confirmation with interest. However, a much more serious issue is that, according to latest Statistics for Mission data, the majority of churches have hardly any children and young people worshiping on a Sunday.

Anglican Priest
Anglican Priest
5 hours ago

Just a further note. I was impressed with the seriousness with which catechism is taken in the Catholic parish life I experienced in France. With the clergy shortage, laity do a lot of things we associate with ministerial/priestly roles. But not only because of that. To be catechized is to know yourself as a Catholic fidele. You own your identity. Confirmation is the formal, public declaration of that — and this whatever one makes of theology and church historical precedent. But justification along these lines is also to hand, and informs the liturgical service, readings, and so forth. I guess… Read more »

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